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Weekly Summaries March 18

Links:

• I’m a fan of saving the environment, but doing without toilet paper is further than I want to go by a long shot.

• What’s the next puzzle craze after sudoku? Article with sample puzzles. The nurikabe was really easy.

Limyaael’s Non-Villain rant. There’s no reason that you need to assume a villain in order to have a story. Mainstream fiction and many “classic” novels get away quite handily with having no villain, or only one truly despicable character in a populated world where many other shades of morality exist.

Writing Summary:

Goals for the past week:
Two reviews – one on the OWW, one off.
Revise ATfD. Almost done.

Although there’s a large energy barrier to critting, I really enjoy it. I like taking things apart and seeing how they work, and I like the chance of discovering something really good.

I should write more short stories. (I won’t, of course, because I don’t have short ideas.) It’s so nice to be able to go over a whole story in one sitting, and keep it all in my head at once. I need more practice with endings, too, and they’re a lot faster to get to in a 2k word story than a 90k story.

Goals for the coming week:
Revise (and submit) ATfD.
Write post about beginnings of novels.

Tasks for later:
(OWW) Catch up on reviews to be returned. (Only one or two left.)
(Trapped Magic) Finish unstickynoting ch 11-15, Finish ch 1-3, Type ch 4-10, Notebook notes for ch 11-15.

Other stuff:
I’m in the early stages of creating my own WordPress theme. Since I don’t know PHP at all and my CSS is built on a weak foundation, this is slow. But fun.

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The Lucky Way to Success

Here’s an appropriate post for a day when I didn’t get much writing done because I had to stay late at the dayjob:

Fred Gratzon, in Your Calling and The Real World, writes:

I see squandering the better part of one’s day when one is most energetic, most alert, and most creative on some “tolerable” job as a tragic waste of one’s gifts and time. Far better is to identify, develop and enjoy those gifts.

and

Whenever I seemed to need money, it appeared. It’s the damnedest thing (or better put, the undamnedest thing) but I have found that it is all a matter of deserving and desiring. If I thought I deserved it then I desired it. And then it came. I’ve never gone without. It has nothing to do with work or effort or jobs or careers. It seems to do the trick because I live comfortably.

Now, on the one hand, he has a point: Why waste time and energy on something unimportant while the Great American Novel languishes unwritten?

But it’s a bit simplistic. I mean, wow! All I have to do is what I want and my rent will magically pay itself? Sign me up!

I think what Gratzon fails to note in his post (and I’ve only briefly skimmed other parts of his blog), is that he’s lucky. What he wants to do, what he enjoys doing, is something *that earns money*. (I believe he’s started some successful businesses. He said he got out when they weren’t fun anymore.)

Do what you love, and the money will follow — as long as what you love is something society values.

Otherwise, you get a choice: do something “tolerable” to pay the bills while pursuing your dream in your spare time, or starve on the street. Being dead does not make pursuing dreams any easier.

[I suppose I should point out that I did, in fact, once quit something I no longer enjoyed to do something totally different that I do enjoy, and I do make a living at it. So I’m my own counterexample. Though I’d rather have more time to write novels.]

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Making Time to Write

A making time to write two-fer:

JA Konrath on relaxing activities to give up and Shadawyn on getting mental work done throughout the day.

I don’t think Mr. Konrath is actually suggesting to never do any of those activities, considering one of them is posting to blogs. Also, I think reading books and exercising are two things writers ought to do.

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Headspace & Being a Writer

Shadawyn has a post on headspace (focus) and linked to a related article by Jennifer Crusie.

Keeping my mind on my work is one of my biggest problems; my current solution is to go to a coffee shop on the weekends and to write at work (during lunch and by staying a bit late).

Elsewhere in livejournal, Anghara writes about being a writer and making the decision to be a writer.

I always feel like an imposter when reading those sorts of posts (not that that bothers me). I don’t think of myself as *being* a writer. I write, I want to sell novels, but it’s not some inherent part of my existence the way it seems to be part of other people’s. I never wanted to tell stories, or create worlds or discover people or whatever. I just had these daydreams about made-up people and I wanted to know what happened, but the stories kept morphing and I thought if I wrote them down I could get to the end. I didn’t try to write until I was in college, and I gave up in disgust several times before it occurred to me, at 25, to write really badly and revise later.

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How to do What You Love

From Paul Graham’s essay How to Do What You Love:

Another test you can use is: always produce. For example, if you have a day job you don’t take seriously because you plan to be a
novelist, are you producing? Are you writing pages of fiction, however bad? As long as you’re producing, you’ll know you’re not merely using the hazy vision of the grand novel you plan to write one day as an opiate. The view of it will be obstructed by the all too palpably flawed one you’re actually writing.

I appreciate his acknowledgement that it’s ok not to know what you want to do when you’re young. So many people see changing your mind, or trying something different out of curiousity, as failure.

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Time Management

Lately I’ve been reading yet another time management/productivity book, and I thought I’d take the time to review some of the useful ideas I’ve got from various sources.

The three systems I’ve tried over the past few years each have their own areas of focus, approaches to time managment, and tools for handling tasks.

I’ve found Flylady, which is more a system of housework than time management, good for handling routine chores, though many of her values as expressed on her website drive me insane. Julie Morgenstern’s Time Management from the Inside Out takes a top-down approach, encouraging people to consider their values in designing a “time map” that schedules time for personal projects as well as work. David Allen’s Getting Things Done is a bottom-up method that talks more about how to get the little stuff done, rather than about deciding what projects to undertake in the first place. (I’ve also got Brian Tracy’s Eat That Frog!, but haven’t read it.)

Flylady

The core of Flylady‘s system, at least the part I found useful, is creating a schedule for getting routine but necessary household tasks done, and doing it in little bits at a time. She advises doing an overall cleaning once a week, and tackling tougher problems in 15-minute chunks the rest of the week. She also has morning and evening routines for daily stuff.

The brief weekly cleaning is just enough to maintain the house’s state, but not really enough to improve things.

Each week, you switch to a different “zone” of the house and work on it for 15 minutes a day, decluttering if necessary, deep cleaning (like scrubbing baseboards) if it’s already picked up.

What I like about this system is the way it makes decluttering and cleaning (and paying bills, doing laundry, other routine chores) into a series of small tasks. I used to put “clean the apartment” on my calendar for Saturdays, and then not want to do it because it was such a huge project. So I’d put it off and the apartment would be that much dirtier the next week, so I’d put it off again…. This way it gets a quick onceover most weeks and whatever doesn’t get cleaned waits for next time.

Time Management from the Inside Out

Reading Time Management from the Inside Out is a great way to realize that there isn’t enough time to do everything you want to do, so you have to decide what you really, really want to do and let the other stuff die.

Morgenstern’s tool is the time map. A time map is a weekly schedule, not too vague, not too detailed, upon which you schedule everything you want to do in a week. I say “not too detailed” because you don’t need to write “Wed. 7 – 9 p.m. crochet afghan”. You simply mark those two hours as “self time”, rather than “work” or “family time”, and when the evening rolls around, decide whether to work on the afghan or read a book or go jogging. (Or, at the office, designate a certain time of day for paperwork or phone calls, but not specify which papers or which calls.)

For me, making the time map was more useful than following it, because it made me select a small number of things to focus on. The examples in the book are telling: the executive who’s writing his autobiography has no other hobbies; the working mother has no hobbies; the marathon runner has no hobbies. (See the trend?)

(Ok, I’m being slightly unfair. There are certain blocks of time designated as “self time” or “family time” which the example people could use to crochet their afghans. But they don’t have any big blocks of time to designate for big projects. No one in the examples is working and running marathons and writing their autobiography while volunteering in the parks and cooking gourmet meals.)

To make a time map, you not only decide what you want to do (go to work, write a novel, and exercise), but when the best time of day is for each project. If you’re more creative in the morning than at night, you schedule writing time before work and exercise time after work.

Getting Things Done

David Allen’s Getting Things Done seems like a good plan for people who really, really like to make lists. Like me. This is the system I’ve tried most recently, and it seems to be pretty close to how I naturally work.

The key to Allen’s system as I understand it is the Next Action. Everything you do that takes more than one step he calls a Project. For every project, there is a next action – the next physical thing that you have to do. For “write novel”, that might be “go over scene 2.2 for plot inconsistencies”. For “crochet afghan”, that might be “get the green yarn out of the craft bin”.

You don’t have to figure every step out in advance. You keep a list of projects (possibly subdivided into work, home, writing, and further divided into current projects (like “write post on time management”) and “someday/maybe” projects (like “write these eight books”)). Each project you’re working on has a next action. You don’t schedule it unless you have to. Whenever you finish one task, you look at all your next actions and pick one, based on what you can do, want to do, and need to do at that moment.

(Allen divides actions into context lists, so if you’re at a phone you only look at a list of calls to make, if you’re at a computer you only see computer tasks, etc. I haven’t found that useful yet, except for dividing “home” and “office”.)

Allen’s approach is designed to clear your head: you write every single thing down, in an organized system, to free your brain from the work of reminding you about it. The weekly review provides the chance to bring new projects off the “someday” list, so they aren’t forgotten forever, but they aren’t nagging at your brain.

I hope that was useful to some of you. Obviously there’s a lot more I could say about each system, but I tried to write down the main ideas that I took away from each of them.

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New Year's Goals – 2006

It’s about that time of year again.

Results for 2005:
* Stick with the daily writing schedule (7 hours/week) – Did well enough at this, and surpassed it, for much of the year. Lately things have been backsliding.

* Finish the third draft of Lost Magic (by June) and send the whole thing to beta readers. – Yep. And submitted it, which goal had been set five years ago.

* Research, outline, and otherwise plan the rewrite of the zeroth draft of the theater book, and then start rewriting it from scratch. – Yep. (Granted, it’s pretty easy to meet a goal that says “start”. Maybe I should set more of those.)

* Do the characterization and description exercises, and critique regularly – No. In fact, I don’t remember what description exercises I’m referring to. I did well at critting for the first half of the year, but once my own book was done, I stopped.

For 2006:
* Keep sending Lost Magic to agents. One response is still pending, and I need to make a list of more agents to submit to. It’d be more efficient to send to more than two at a time. Probably need to revise my synopsis as well.

* Completely finish the theater book. This is an ambitious goal for me, especially given the slow pace of the past couple months. But I’m not spending five years on a book again.

* Spend more time on writing – that has to happen if I’m going to make the previous goal.

* Do the emotion exercises I said I’d do last year, and do two crits/month minimum. (Or enough to submit things for critique.)

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Victoria

Edit: photos are here

Had a great time in Victoria, British Columbia with my mom, aunt, and three cousins. Some people write wonderful travelogues with poetic and insightful descriptions. This is not one of those. Continue reading

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